Yiihaa..~
Today,i'm having a menstrual-pain!![saket ok??]
Well..sbenarnye kan..since yesterday[bkn smlm jek..ddulu pon ade gak]..i was emotionnally wondering why do people emotions kept gradually changin.i was thinkin about the perception of persons attitude when men and women display emotions inconsistent with the gender stereotypes.i mean..the type of emotions both sexes are expected to show [pelik² kan manusie ni?]It was like..macam this kind of situation la..
» A man bursts into tears after a tough day at the office and concerned co-workers rush to support him.then..a woman sobs in the same situation and her distress is barely acknowledged [why such differing reactions?]
Hmm..org rase la kan..it all depends on what we don't expect [kan?]mende nih cm saikologi la jgak[huhu]maksudnye,bile men and women display emotions inconsistent with the gender stereotypes we hold, we're apt to think that those feelings are MORE genuine n legitimate.ape yg org tau..men are expected to show anger and stubbornness n women plak tend to express happiness, sadness, land fear..so,a crying woman is just more of the same.but a sorrowful man is such a rarity that we believe he must be on the brink of disaster[haha.rase mcm btol jek ape yg org rase about this]same jgak mcm an angry man,which it is common..but a livid woman is SO rare which we think that she must really be furious[mmg kkadang cam tak terkawal pon]So..betol ke tak ape yg org rase n realize??[ahaks!]
tapi kan..even so..a woman's feelings still don't carry the same weight as a man's [am i ryt?] women typically are seen as "EMOTIONAL" and their reactions viewed as overblown.what i mean is..we tend to discount a large reaction in women..while men are more likely to be admired for showin their true emotions[btol tak?] Contohnye la kan..a man who panics in stressful conditions is seen as honest or vulnerable.while a frightened woman might be regarded as overreacting[haha]well..i said those sebab org rase mende nih memang betol pon.eventho org ni pompuan,tapi memang secare knyataan nye..pompuan nih memang FULL OF EMOTIONS dr laki[hmm..]
Apparently,the way we view men's and women's emotional expressions were actually may have an impact on our romantic relationships[mmg pon!sbb tuh kkdg slalu gado.haha]emotions were actually givin more weight according to who expresses them..not how sincere they are[yeke?]thus,that heart-to-heart conversation with our partner may not be an equal trade[after'all..]since in the currency of emotions, a woman's feelings are worth much less[that's it!!!]hmm..So..org da sgt penat nak pk pasal emotions² nih.kkadang kan..kite bole jadik depressed kalo tlalu pk sgt pasal this kind of emotion-stuffs bla bla..n bile da depressed..mulela kene emotion distraction.n bile kene this syndrome..mulela jadik tak betol,nk grumpy bagai..[btol tak u olls??]Haha..sebabnye..org terSGT la slalu kene this 'syndrome'[ahaks]sebab tu saye slalu GILE ok??hahaha..
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Haha..this entry is actually devoted to my OFFICE-MATES yg terSGTla sengals[hahaha!] pasni,if korg ade terbace entry ni..jgn lagik dok gatai² ngintai/curik² pandang kat org[ok u olls??]Hahaha..especially to Kak Wan+Esquander..jgn choy n mlampao ok??ahakss..SUNGGOH jahat makhlok² ini..sebabnye..saye akan mhadapi kesukaran untuk menaip+ngarang utk entry² saye d sebabkan gangguan² dari makhlok² halus itew..[hahaha]
Do i supposed to say that it was MY fault??Adoii..since yesterday i kept on searching for my PMR slip [haha.bet it sounds funny kan?]But hey..it is!!ntah mane tah pegi that slip.Apparently,i decided to update my SPP application..but then i realized that i need to put on my PMR result.N bile cari..adoii..tah mane menhilang[tension²] Called me daddy n asked about the slip..but suddenly die plak yang marah[sedeh]the damn-thing wasn't with him actually..Neither ME!!so..mane plak gi slip tuh??[parah ni]..
